The study aims to investigate the importance of helicopter parenting and socialization perspective, hands-on learning and instilling emotional intelligence in maximizing student engagement. It postulates that modern learning and teaching process require positive engagement in the class and it proposes that the impact post-modern life, in terms of falling of ethical values and emerging of lots of social illnesses, creates sense of worries and scares among parents particularly in educational system. The study is based on surveyed public male secondary school students and structural equation modeling used to test the relations estimated in the theoretical model and its effects. The study concludes that helicopter parenting plays a seminal role in maximizing students’ engagement and achievement in English class, however, excessive over helicopter parenting affects the student’s personality negatively. Implementing hands-on learning maximizes student engagement in English class. The study recommends that helicopter parenting should be implemented reasonably without negative effect on children’s personality and self-esteem and emotional intelligence should be trained to the students to instill consideration of other emotions and feelings.
Keywords: Helicopter parenting, Hands-on learning, Emotional intelligence, Critical thinking, Problem-solving, Student engagement, Behavioral engagement, Emotional engagement, Cognitive engagement.
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